What Do I Do If My Partner Doesn’t Want Help Treating Their Addiction?
What Do I Do If My Partner Doesn’t Want Help Treating Their Addiction?
We always want what’s best for our partners. Whether they are working on something exciting or trying to get past something difficult, we want to be there and help support them however we can. When it comes to certain behaviors like drinking, drug use, gambling, or other issues related to addiction, though, it can be very difficult to support a partner. It takes a lot of courage and strength to help them along their journey of recovery, which is commendable.
With that said, it’s important to understand when your partner doesn’t want help, and what you should do if this is the case.
What If My Partner Is Hesitant?
It’s understandable if your partner is hesitant about getting the help they need. They may be worried about putting their life on hold, the ramifications of accepting they have an addiction, their pride, or one of so many other issues. They also may not believe they have a problem.
When speaking with your partner about enrolling in a treatment program, have your facts ready and also speak to them in a calm and caring manner. You are there to support them, not scold them, and it’s important that they understand this. Compassion is key. This is not the time to point the finger.
If you need support, consider reaching out to Front Door Health. We provide in-home, professional intervention services led by top treatment specialists in the field of substance use and addiction treatment. Our team can provide compassionate, collaborative, and caring intervention services to help your loved one feel heard while also encouraging them to seek the help they need.
What If My Partner Doesn’t Want Help?
If your partner doesn’t want help, trying to force the issue will likely only build resentment and cause issues down the line. With that said, your own mental, emotional, and even physical wellbeing is extremely important and should be prioritized. This means setting boundaries and even seeking support for yourself. You aren’t alone, and there are professional and peer support services to help you along your journey.
If your partner refuses to stop drinking or using after you’ve spoken with them about the issue, set your boundaries. If they push against these boundaries or ignore them, it may be time to step away from the relationship. While this is difficult, your health and safety are most important.
It can be very hard watching someone you love spiral, but it’s important to know when enough is enough. Make sure your needs are met and—if needed—encourage your loved one to seek support from a distance. You can be there to lend a helping hand once they are ready to get the support they need and deserve.
About Front Door Health
Front Door Health provides concierge, judgment-free in-home treatment for patients when they need it. We take an evidence-based approach to treatment, and we create custom treatment plans for our patients to increase their chances of success. Our treatment process is client-focused and individualized. This means no group sessions with strangers and no “treatment as usual” approach. You are unique and the treatment plan we create for you is designed to meet you where you are along your journey and help you to reach your recovery goals.
We understand that it can be difficult to put your life on hold and take time off work. Our in-home treatment allows you to continue to meet your work, family, and other obligations while receiving the treatment you deserve.
If you would like to learn more about in-home treatment, contact Front Door Health today. We’re happy to answer any questions and provide you with the help you need.
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